We may have experienced this at some point in our lives.
We are looking forward to something and all of a sudden it is ripped away from you.
Our minds come up with numerous reasons why.
Did I say something wrong?
Am I being discriminated against?
Do I have what it takes to take control of my life again?
All of these questions and so many more may come up.
But it varies from person to person about what happens next.
I am in the process of trying to take back my life. For nearly 13 years I took the guidance and sometimes controlling actions of others.
I did what they thought was best and for sure they were sometimes right.
But as I try to take back control, it often feels like I am being stopped dead in my tracks.
How does one deal with this?
Can you really have it all in life?
Do you have to work for it?