Who Helps the Helper? — “The Truths of My Life” (Overcoming Mental Obstacles and Staying in a Place of Deliverance)

Hey! Thank you from coming back. I want to continue our series on feelings and emotions but I want to discuss a topic due to what I saw on the news recently this week. Matthew Wong, a 35-year-old painter from Canada known for his work on the Cusp of Fame died earlier this month and […]

via Who Helps the Helper? — “The Truths of My Life” (Overcoming Mental Obstacles and Staying in a Place of Deliverance)

Very true! I’m feeling like no one believes me and what I need to do is wrong. I can tell you that 99.9% of you truly don’t understand what I have to do and deal with just to even feel equal, if that’s even possible! I know I have made mistakes and I learn from them, that is how we grow. However at the same time people think they can just do something to someone and get away with it because that’s how they are raised. The problem thus lies with how they are raised as a child.

It’s very frustrating to me to have to feel like I have to cover myself always. I often don’t have any freedom as a result.

At the same time it feels like I don’t have anyone to talk to that is not judgemental where they try to push their beliefs and thoughts on to me.

There is not much research on traumatic brain injuries and that is part of the problem. Many people who get a TBI are not able to do what I can do and some of the time I don’t even know how I do it either.

Who helps the helper?

7 thoughts on “Who Helps the Helper? — “The Truths of My Life” (Overcoming Mental Obstacles and Staying in a Place of Deliverance)

  1. Did you try Hanna Somatics?

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  2. Yernasia Quorelios October 27, 2019 — 9:29 pm

    ON FRIENDSHIP AND SUPPORT

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    I Have NO TIME!!! for People Propagating and Promoting Problems; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Have ALL The Time In The World for Others, Like Me with MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues), Who Seek Solutions…once a Friend always a Friend; so I Divide My Friends in to Dormant and Active:

    ♧ Clubbing – I Have Fallen Out with My Dormant Friends and We ARE Failing to Find a Path to Reconciliation – Clubbing
    ♡ My Active Friends KNOW!!! I Don’t Like Being Told What To, I Don’t Mind Being Respectfully Corrected and I Actively Listen
    ♤ So, please EveryOne, Your THOUGHTS!!! on Friends; especially Those Who “Cut Off ALL Communication FOREVER!!! 😠 ”

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON HAPPYNESS

    ♡ I DO Feel True Happiness EveryOne, Simply and Complexly, I Was Playing ‘Hide and Seek’ with My True Happiness; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Have counted to 10 and said “I’m coming to find you true happiness; ready or not.”…so I Suggest Stick At It; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that it’s Well Worth It 😀

    …♡♡♡…

    ON PERCEIVED POWER

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    An almost inevitable cause of Falling Out with Others is Wanting To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! whether in A Family, At Work, Friendships, Lovers, Neighbours or Any Other; when We Relinquish Our Demands and Wants To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! Amazing Things Happen…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that The Wants and Demands To Be The Most POWERFUL!!! ARE ALL About Self Protection; there ARE Few More Heart Wrenching Sights than Observing The Once Most POWERFUL!!! Whimpering like a Wounded Dog and Begging For Mercy…it is Simple yet Complex to Rid OurSelves of This POWERFUL!!! Anxiety; it begins with Spending Linear Time in Solitude and Turning Inwards by Admitting, Acknowledging and Addressing Our MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues)…then We Find, via Childlike Rediscovery, Our Place Of Love, In Joy, At Peace; a Humble Place where The Universe is able to Empower Us Even More than Ever…so I Suggest Avoid Co-Dependent Dominance, Submission and Misery; instead Focus on Our Boundaries and Co-Operation with Others (Don’t Be A DoorMat for Power Mongers) and The Universe WILL!!! Answer…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON ADDICTED

    So what Exactly is Addiction EveryOne 🤔 ? Here’s My View; an Addiction is SomeThing We Believe We Cannot Do WithOut such as this Non-Exhaustive List:

    ♤ Sex
    ♤ Ciggies
    ♤ Exercise
    ♤ Drugs
    ♤ Dieting
    ♤ Attention
    ♤ Adulation
    ♤ Alcohol
    ♤ Being RIGHT!!! 😠

    …it’s possible to become De-Addicted creating Exes that may have unfortunate, unforseen consequences; consequences such as Cold Turkey, SMUGNESS!!! et al Totally Lacking Empathy, a Pathological Form of Self Protective Psychopathy like:

    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Smokers – Clubbing
    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Lovers – Clubbing
    ♧ Clubbing – Ex-Druggies – Clubbing

    …this List is NOT!!! Exhaustive EveryOne; when We Recover and Survive I THINK!!! it’s Incumbent Upon Us to be Kind, Caring and Compassionate rather than Boasting about Our Recovery and Sneering:

    ♧ Clubbing – “If I AM Able to do it why aren’t You 🤔 ? You ARE PATHETIC 😬 !!!” – Clubbing

    …it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Prefer to SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) OurSelves as Supportive yet the above seems to indicate The Opposite; it’s My Experience that Many Folk ARE Only Looking Out for ThemSelves which is Fair Enough and WHY!!! I Tend to AVOID OTHERS!!! for Their Protection and Mine…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON LETTING GO

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ♤ Some Say “Quitting is Weakness!!!”; I Say “FUCK OFF!!!”
    ♤ Some Say “I’VE LOST EVERYTHING!!!”; I Say “Swallow Some Cement then Harden The FUCK UP!!!”
    ♤ Some Say “IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT!!!; I Say “Look in Your FUCKING!!! Mirror.”

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ Pay Attention
    ◇ Signs
    ◇ Synchronicities
    ◇ SubAtomic Spaces
    ◇ Suggestions
    ◇ Signals
    ◇ Guidelines
    ◇ Pointers
    ◇ Pay FUCKING!!! Attention

    …if You FAIL!!! to Understand The Above I Suggest Using Road Trips as Metaphor; if That FAILS!!! then This Message isn’t Meant For You RIGHT NOW!!! 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 Cognitive Dissonance is THE RAGE RESISTANCE!!! to Different Ways of THINKING!!!, Speaking and Behaving; something called ‘The Leech Effect’ in Fond Memory of ‘Medical Experts’ who ‘Bled Out Bad Blood’ with Leeches as a ‘Cure’ so, given pharma, nothing much has changed there, yet We Have a Perfect AutoImmune System…this Absurdity is NOT!!! confined to The Medical Profession, for example, a Circle is Accepted as 360° yet Mathematicians and Scientists, due to Their Entrenched Education, Argue The Toss about How Many Degrees a Sphere Has; the simple answer is 360° Cubed (46,656,000° for those interested) just like a Square, 90°×4=360° Cubed (46,656,000° for those interested), Go Figure 🤔 ?…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON BEING AFEARED

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    In My Experience there ARE Two Types of People in the Context of Fear; those who treat Fear as a Problem and Pretend to be Fearless and those who Accept that We ALL Feel Fear and who Perceive Fear as a Pathway to Solutions…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Really Don’t Have Time for Problem Promoters, COMPLAINANTS!!! Seeking Excuses and ALL The Time in The World for Solution Seekers, THINKERS!!! Embracing Fear as an Assisting Friend; so I Invite You ALL to Consider These Various Expansions of The Acronym F.E.A.R then please Share Your THOUGHTS!!! with ALL of Us:

    ◇ False Evidence Appearing Real
    ◇ Friendly Emotive Alert Response
    ◇ Firm Efficient Assertive ReAction

    …it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Successful because I AM Driven by Fear of Failure; a Very Powerful Motivation…yet I Still Fail but it doesn’t matter; especially because of Inspirational People like this Lady (May She R.I.P)

    http://www.susanjeffers.com – Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON SAT (SURRENDER ACCEPTANCE TRUST)

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ It’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Some of Us Really Do Understand Suffering, Forgiveness and Boundaries 🤓 ; yet Others Allow Bad Behaviours to Continue in The Mistaken Belief that Behaviours WILL!!! Improve with ALL Sweetness and Light 😔 …that is until Furious, Raging Resentment Kicks In 😠 ; so, watch’ya gonna do next 🤔 ? So I Suggest with ALL Your Perceived Power Sit Down, Be Humble and Just Be; whatever NEEDS!!! Knowing or Remembrance in ANY GIVEN MOMENT!!! doesn’t NEED FORCING!!!

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON TABOO DATING

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    Many Serial Daters may consider Futures Dates in a Different Light; with an InExhaustible List of Questions Like:

    ◇ “What are your sexual preferences 🤔?”
    ◇ “Are you psycho 🤔 ?”
    ◇ “How many kids do you want 🤔 ?”

    …and Other such ‘Inappropriate’ Dating Questions; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that doing things the same way and expecting different results is mad, nutty, dumb, confused, crazy, delusional et al…this with a Very, Due Respectful Nod in The Direction of Mr Albert Einstein; a Scientist who was NEVER!!! Comfortable with The Idea of Quantum UnCertainty Famously Stating “God does not play dice with The Universe.”…

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

    ON RELIGION AND OTHER MODALITIES

    ♡ So You Don’t Trust YourSelf EveryOne instead Trusting to Other ‘Authority’ such as a White Elderly Man with a Long White Beard or Other ‘Divine’ Male, Godly Manifestations while Totally Ignoring Goddess; Poor You, I’ll Observe from a Distance while SHE!!! Rips You Apart 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊

    …♡♡♡…

    ON THE NATURE OF REALITY – PROBLEM SOLVING

    ♡ I Seek Solutions instead of Promoting Problems EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We ALL Have Limitations yet We Can ALL Do Things Others Struggle To Do so I Suggest Figure Out Your Weaknesses and Strengths

    …so, about Awareness and Enlightenment; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity to Me that Consciousness has Four States:

    ♤ Conscious of Our Decision Making – Our Choices
    ♤ SubConscious State 1 – A Private Place where We ARE UnConscious of Our Decision Making, Reflexes and Knee-Jerk ReActions
    ♤ SubConscious State 2 – A Public Place where We Do ESP (Extra Sensory Perception) Stuff like Telepathy and Dreaming et al
    ♤ SubConscious State 3 – The Single Source of All That Was, All That Is and All That Will Be, An Ever Expanding Sphere

    …so Repetition, Routine and Boredom may be Suggesting To You a Lesson to be Learned EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Everything Passes whether ‘Good’ or ‘Bad’ so The Trick is Not to Get Stuck in Circular Time with ‘Bad’ or ‘Good’…instead Let Life Flow in Linear Time; this is 3D after all and 5D is Attainable by Traversing 4D

    …♡♡♡…

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