How do I turn this around?

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Life is full of challenges.

How we surpass each of them can help determine how we travel in life.

You can sure go places, there is no questioning that!

There will always be someone that will tell you no and it sure is frustrating.

What can make it worse is the way  that people think.

Something that was mentioned to me yesterday was the LMX theory.

It is a style of leadership and although it can be beneficial if applied correctly, many times it can be used in a negative style.

In employment new hires go through 3 stages before they are placed in the in-group or the out-group.

Those in the in-group get substantially more benefits, work loads, promotions, etc. Those in the out-group tend to get bare minimums in order to keep a job.

It can be frustrating to be in such a group and I honestly believe that is happening right now at my job. I have to do more research to confirm but I must have said something that didn’t mesh well with my manager.

I really can’t win! I’ve been through tougher times but I don’t know how to turn this around. Do you? I know they are reading this, so maybe they can offer suggestions?

10 thoughts on “How do I turn this around?

  1. Yernasia Quorelios October 18, 2019 — 10:50 pm

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ I Quit Corporate Citizenry EveryOne; sure, I had No Idea where Financial and Material Support for a Poor Writer, a Creative, would come from 🤔 …yet here I am with Both Budget, Luxury and Gift Stuff at My Disposal but still Next to No Money 🤑 ; which Fucks with My Head a Bit 🤓 …it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that My Heart Understands and My Head is just about Keeping Up with ALL of This “language”; 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

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  2. My two cents: I always try to get to the basic mechanisms. All communication styles and theories are ultimately based on the same principles. Only the interpretation is a bit different. But you see the effects of what it is for you. If it’s bad for you: can you handle it for a certain amount of time because you’re referring to your self-esteem and positive energy from other sources? Sometimes Byron Katie helps, especially with self-referential beliefs that make you unhappy: I would have to …. or: I should …. Also helpful are Tony Robbins, Carl Rogers, Marshall Rosenberg, Alice Miller, Ruth C. Cohn, Richard Bandler , Thomas Hanna. But there are also traumatizing communication styles and you can only keep your distance (double bind and bad forms of narcissm).
    Have a great day!

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  3. Yernasia Quorelios October 19, 2019 — 6:06 am

    ♡ I Read Recently that there’s NEVER PROBLEMS!!! with Our InterActions and Relationships EveryOne; just Grown Up Kids Fighting to Find Solutions

    …♡♡♡…

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  4. Yernasia Quorelios October 19, 2019 — 7:57 am

    ON RIGHT AND WRONG

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ I Often Wonder if ‘This…’ is Right EveryOne then I Remember ALL about ‘AfterMath’ 😲😟😑 ; ergo it’s ALWAYS!!! Right in The Moment OtherWise I Would Be in Another State of Existing aka Dead or Terminally Ill ☻ thankfully I Have Learned Lessons 🤓 so:

    ◇ Pay Attention
    ◇ Signs
    ◇ SubAtomic Spaces
    ◇ Suggestions
    ◇ Signals
    ◇ Guidelines
    ◇ Pointers
    ◇ Pay Fucking Attention

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

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  5. Yernasia Quorelios October 19, 2019 — 7:59 am

    ♡ …Synchronicities Too; 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 …

    …♡♡♡…

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  6. Yernasia Quorelios October 19, 2019 — 8:49 am

    Here’s The Full Version EveryOne; draft, draft, draft…:

    ON DRUDGERY

    ◇ Diamond Hard – Beware The Phyrrhic Victory EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM a Lazy MotherFucker, a ‘Failure’, which is Paying Off much better than Soul Destroying ‘Hard Work’ and ‘Daily Drudge’ 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 – Diamond Hard

    …◇◇◇…

    ON BOUNDARIES

    ♧ Clubbing – It’s NOT!!! ALL Sweetness and Light EveryOne so keep ‘Negativity’ in Back Pockets but Ready to Whip Out when Necessary; the Japanese, Chinese and Other Asians call it ‘The Warrior In The Garden’ – Clubbing

    …♧♧♧…

    ON APOLOGIES

    Diamond Hard – there is Only One GAH!!! (Genuine Authentic Honest, The Exclamation Marks Representing The Frustration of FFF (Fake, False, Fraudulent)) Apology EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Changing The Way We:

    ◇ THINK!!!
    ◇ SPEAK!!!
    ◇ BEHAVE!!!

    …is a Lot Better than a Mealy Mouthed “I AM SORRY!!!”; only to Repeat The Same Stuff in Circular Time – Diamond Hard…

    …◇◇◇…

    ON HURTING

    ◇ Diamond Hard – Frankly, as a Rugby Player in a RWC Year, I Do find it Difficult to Sympathise with Sufferers Who ARE Complaining; yet I Do Empathise, Pain is Far From Pleasant yet Pain is Bearable without Complaint, just ask AnyOne who’s Given Birth – Diamond Hard

    …◇◇◇…

    ON BEING AND AZURA

    Diamond Hard

    So, Am I Doing the Right Thing in The Right Place Right Now 🤔 ? Here, in My View, ARE Crystal Clear Clarity Lenses both HindSight and Future Gazing while Present:

    ◇ Personal Proof
    ◇ Experiential Evidence
    ◇ Gut Feeling

    …Diamond Hard…

    …◇◇◇…

    ON VIBRATIONAL SYNCHRONICITY

    ◇ Diamond Hard – Why is it EveryOne 🤔 ? If You Don’t Understand This Question then, please, Stay The Fuck Away from Me or Suffer the Consequences; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that This Question is NOT!!! Meant for You Yet You WILL!!! Get There Eventually – Diamond Hard

    …◇◇◇…

    ON TROLLING

    ◇ Diamond Hard – I Generally Tend to Play Them at Their Own Game EveryOne;  They Soon Go Away when They Perceive The Insult…it’s Kinda Wierd but, in many ways somehow, being Subtlety Mean to Certain Folk does Actually Help Them and then They Block You and You NEVER!!! Hear From Them 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 – Diamond Hard

    …◇◇◇…

    ON RIGHT AND WRONG

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ I Often Wonder if ‘This…’ is Right EveryOne then I Remember ALL about ‘AfterMath’ 😲😟😑 ; ergo it’s ALWAYS!!! Right in The Moment OtherWise I Would Be in Another State of Existing aka Dead or Terminally Ill ☻ thankfully I Have Learned Lessons 🤓 so:

    ◇ Pay Attention
    ◇ Signs
    ◇ Synchronicities
    ◇ SubAtomic Spaces
    ◇ Suggestions
    ◇ Signals
    ◇ Guidelines
    ◇ Pointers
    ◇ Pay Fucking Attention

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

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