Some things are simply not what they appear to be.
New ways often need to be invented so that someone with a disability can participate equally.
And often this comes with looks.
But would it be better to do everything for them or let them try it themselves?
By doing something, even in a different way, they feel like they achieved something.
Sure it may look different but why are you judging what they do? Have you tried living the way that they do?
I was on a country road with very few cars and my car has awesome alignment. I just wanted the celery sticks to be opened up to eat on my 45 minutes ride home.